Man is a knot into which relationships are tied ~Antoine de Saint

Allah has given us such a dynamic personality that whenever we meet strangers, get into interaction and seems to have connections in same time or in different times. Our relationships has already been transcend on human experiences. We tend to find ways, with our personnel relationships, with friends, family and acquaintances in order to make our meaning to another person in presence or in absence. Being a part of relationships is just not it, it need more than that. Distance and period of absence is the intrinsic part of the relationship as with the distance you tend to realize the importance of the person in your life. It can be either way distance can also make the other person being attracted to another one. Either way depends on the degree of relationship and mutual understanding between you and your friend or between any one.

The understanding that we have with our friends helps us to over come the hiccups that occurs in occasionally or in our daily life. Our commitment helps us to solve the misunderstanding with an orientation of understanding. Disagreement is a threat itself to a friendship but it is a part of its development and a process of getting know each other. To develop the understanding is one of the difficult tasks but in order to have a firm relationship it is very necessary. To create an understanding is long and time requiring procedure but it has very healthy and fruitful results. Our emotions is always transcends the word we speak. To be close to some one doesn’t require the co- presence of the other person but also it’s hard to believe that to get close to some one with non physical means only. It’s the commitment and trust that makes the relationship tie in a strong knot.

When we have close relationships we tend to have an emotional attachment tend to be more loyal, try and understand the others feeling and position. Emotional attachment is good for the relationship but to extend, excessive emotional attachment leads to possessiveness which can be drastic for the relationships.

I have tried to write some proximity which we all understand but failed to notice. Every single relationship is based on the communications, interpersonal relationship, mutual understanding, commitment and trust.

In the end, I would like to enlighten some thing which I always have faced and seen that every relationship has some lacking and we can always resolve them but there is only one way that is communications.